As a first time mom of a 14 month old little girl, I’ve learned a lot over the last 14 months. While I was pregnant I spent hours and hours in Target and Babies R Us registering for all the things needed for safely raising a baby. There are so many things in those stores that it’s quite overwhelming. Now that I have and use all these things, my mother, mother-in-law and plenty of random strangers, love to tell me “we didn’t have that when I had my kids.” If I’m out in a restaurant, shopping, or wherever, when someone sees me with my daughter and one of our many gadgets designed to make mommy-hood easier, they love to tell me how much easier things are now thanks to all these new inventions. And though I’m very grateful for all these things and appreciate the fact that they do make day-to-day activities easier, I’m not sure that being a mom is necessarily easier these days. There are so many things out there that can harm our kids that weren’t there 30 years ago when I was a baby. There are so many more germs and much more pollution. There are more cars on the road, people drive faster and there are more car accidents. There is the internet, cell phones and various other ways that sick, mean people can contact and try to harm our children. So, I’m eternally gratefully for my many modern contraptions. Thanks to these things I can spend more time protecting my baby from all the other things that can make her sick or hurt her.
I’ve always been a very Type A personality…I like order, tidiness, and cleanliness, however I never would have described myself as a germaphobe, that is until I had my daughter. And I’m still not necessarily germaphobic when it comes to myself, but I’m VERY germaphobic where my daughter is concerned. My husband teases me and says I’m going to make her into a wimp, but that’s ok by me! As her mommy it’s my job to make sure she’s healthy and safe! So, I’d like to share the top 5 things a germaphobic mommy cannot live without. Most of these things are the things described above…things that “we didn’t have when I had my kids.”
1. Shopping Cart Cover – the shopping cart cover is essential when kids are big enough to start sitting in the shopping cart. It totally covers the seat and uses elastic to wrap around the handle and back rest and ties to the sides. This way the child can’t touch or put their mouth on the dirty shopping cart where other snotty-nosed kids have rubbed their noses, mouths and probably unwashed hands. Not to mention the adults who don’t wash their hands, then push the carts around. Ick!
2. High Chair Cover – same idea as the shopping cart cover, just made for restaurant high chair…protects against the same snotty-nosed, dirty-handed kids that have sat and ate in that chair.
3. Rubber Suction Cup Placemat – This is a rubber placemat that has little suction cups on the bottom so you can stick it to restaurant tables and keep your child’s food off a table, a table that may or may not have been disinfected after the last people ate there. Again, you’re also protecting against the snotty-nose, dirty-handed kids and adults, waiters who might have sneezed on the table, and who knows what else could be on that table!!
4. Antibacterial Hand Sanitizer - Very important, who knows what you’ve touched, and you’re changing diapers…germs, germs, germs…sanitize often! They make nice little bottles that will hang right on the handle of your diaper bag.
5. Wipes, Wipes and More Wipes – Wipes are not just for wiping wet and dirty bottoms, although, believe me, I go through my share doing that! I’m a compulsive bottom wiper! But I use wipes for much more than that! Wipes clean baby hands, baby faces, dirty tables, dirty toys, dirty pacifiers…anything! I should buy stock in the wipe company!
You may wonder how I manage to haul around all these things for the inevitable germ crisis, but I never take them out of my car, that way they are handy for any germy situation!
While all the new inventions for child care have made things more convenient, keeping your children safe is harder than ever, so good luck keeping them safe and healthy, and make sure to use all these inventions, they make life as a germaphobic mommy a little bit easier!
- Stephanie Benedict